Facebook......

I have had Facebook for a good while.  I got it in the beginning for my business,  but since then it became a friend's only thing and I used pages for my business.  It just amazes me at the drama on there.  Over the weekend I got my own.  I know I could have just sent a text about what the other person commented,  but it just went all over me and I didn't care and still don't.  How do you ever know that the people in your life, rather it be family or friends, are really true family and friends??? This past weekend was a big shocking eye opener. I have had some back stabbing people in my life,  but from this person, I couldn't believe it. Warning,  this may be a long,  boring post, but I just need to type this out. FYI, I will be deactivating my account as you can do that and not lose anything and just log back on when you decide you want to be back on there. Just don't delete it.
   It started a couple of months ago.  My SIL messaged me that her son had put in an app where I work and she wanted me to help him get the job.  Well, I just work there,  I don't hire and fire,  I just show up, do my job,  and go home.  I told one of the managers there his name and that he put in an app if she was still needing help.  I left it at that.  I mean really,  if you need a job,  you need to get the job,  IMO. My SIL messaged me again later asking me about it and I told her that I told them and that he may want to call and check on his app (this does show that you want the job,  not sure if he did or not) I also told her off another department that needed help that he may want to put an app in, not sure if he did or not,  but after this,  he's on his own. I have 4 kids and 3 of them have been able to get a job without me hounding people, my 4th kid is only 9, so it doesn't apply to her. Anyway, I work in the office some. My oldest daughter just finished her third year of college and quick books. One of the ladies in the office has been sick and needs to take some time off. They need someone to help just during the summer. They knew my daughter had what they need so they asked me if she would want the job.  They asked me, I did not go to them.  Of course, she wanted it as it gives her some experience in the field she's going on (she wants to be a tax auditor). My daughter gets on her Facebook,  excited about her new job and thanks me,  which me working there helped,  but her having the schooling is what really got her the job.  My SIL comments,  I'm glad she did for someone,  referring to me helping to get my daughter a job and not her son.  So anyway,  that started a BIG back and forth thing,  on Facebook, no doubt. It ended up on my page and once it did,  I let her have it. 15 years ago when my 2 oldest kids were 6 and 8 and I was pregnant with my, now 15 yo son, me and my SIL used the same babysitter.  Anyway, during this time,  our babysitter passed away,  she was and older, sweet lady. On my Facebook page, my SIL brings this up, saying that people will not think highly of me when they find out what I did the day after she passed away. ..15 years, and this is all she can find,  dig dig dig, there's nothing there.  She acted like it was something soooo bad, but all she ever said was that I took my kids over there.  Well, its like this.  I worked 7 a.m-3p.m at the time so there's no way of me knowing that something had happened during the night until I got over there that morning so if that is soooo bad, I'm sorry. It's not like I left them there.  Other than that,  I don't know what she's talking about. ...15 years is a long time to remember details,  but apparently she thought she had something on me. This is what Facebook and jealousy does to people and they don't mix well!! I seriously have a very simple life. I have been a Mom since I was 17. My youngest is 9 and I am 41 so all I have really ever done is raise me kids and work.  I go to work and come home.  The only time I interact with other adults, besides my husband (and fscebook) is when I'm at work, or taking my daughter to dance/cheer. If I do anything with anyone, it's with the people in the house. My two addictions are coffee and this stupid, time sucking phone. I have never done drugs and I had a glass of wine on new years. Oh, I do drive a little fast, but I have a valid drivers license and insurance. So, my point is....why do people waste their time worrying about what I'm doing??? Enjoy your life. If you're not happy with your life, then make some changes. Don't find fault with others to make yourself look good because you're miserable with your own life.  That is not happiness!!
   Sorry for such a long,  boring post, but I just felt like I needed to do this.  I needed to get it off my chest so that I can move on.  As for me and the SIL, she has crossed a line with me and I'll never get over it. At least that's how I feel at this moment.  She told my son she has just tolerated me and by her bringing up something from 15 years ago, that just proves that she is right.  I don't have to be tolerated. If you don't like me, stay away.